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Dating Solved.

Elevated Dating for Amazing Singles

We solve dating problems!

End your dating frustrations today.

Modern dating can be so aggravating!

But it doesn't have to be. 

Follow our proven processes to make dating more fun, efficient, and fruitful!

If you've ever had thoughts like...

- I'm newly single; where do I start?

- Which dating app should I use?

- How do I set up an online dating profile that stands out from the crowd and attracts the right attention?

- What if I don't want to venture online at all?

- It seems like there are no more good people out there!

- How can I tell if someone's interested or not? 

- Is there anyone out there my age?

- It's been years since I was last single; how is dating even done these days? 

If you've ever asked one of these questions, you're not alone.  A LOT of singles have these concerns. 

And that's OK.  That's why we're here.

We take the guess work out of modern-day dating. 

We guide growth-minded men and women just like you so that you can find a happy, healthy, loving relationship and enjoy richer social connections!

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Looking for traction in your dating life but on a budget? You can enroll in one of our affordable

JumpStart Programs below.

The Dating Audit and Strategy Session

is the launch-point of your coaching experience

(and our most popular ala carte service!)

In the 75 minute Dating Audit and Strategy Session we will identify:

  • Your dating & relationship goals

  • Your dating and relationship strengths...
    What do you bring to the dating market?
    What do you bring to a relationship? (ex: your attachment style, attitude, communication skills, level of confidence and courage, your “love language,” genuine desire for a relationships, etc.)

  • Your limitations, and how to overcome and/or reframe them.


This is where the bulk of our consultation time is spent: problem-solving the biggest challenges that are getting in the way of you meeting the people you want to meet and forming a connection.

If you're wondering where to go and what to do to meet new people you can connect with, we'll answer that in the Dating Audit and Strategy Session.  We will provide you with a social "action plan" you can follow to reinvent your social life and find someone wonderful!


After we identify your needs and goals and lay out your social strategy, we will also have the information we need to define your blueprint for continued coaching.  Sure, you can just do the Dating Audit and Strategy Session and walk away with tips and tactics to overcome some of your limitations, or you can sign up for one or more of our jump start programs . . . or . . . sign up for our All-Inclusive Date Coaching or Matchmaking programs.

Let’s get started in your search for love and connection!

Online Dating Profile Makeover

We can't count how many people have said to us, "I HATE online dating!"  "I tried it- for a week!"


The fact of the matter is, the burnout rate for online dating is high.  It can be a time-suck.  It can take incredible emotional fortitude and resilience.  You've heard the horror stories about cat-fishers and frauds.  Maybe you even tried it yourself for awhile, but just couldn't get your heart into the habit of opening your app or checking your messages.  Maybe you thought, "Is this all there is???"  when you saw how the pond was stocked. 

Our Online Dating Profile Makeover program will completely change the way you do online dating.  We'll talk about your expectations, help you select the best sites for finding the right people, and you'll learn how other singles assess attractiveness so that you can put your best foot forward.  Here's how:


We'll rewrite your primary profile and we'll help you take and select the best photos. We'll also explain the "why" behind our choices, because it's important for you to know how men and women are viewing and perceiving each other online! 

You'll get some tips and tricks for opening conversations and building conversational momentum. 

You'll also learn how to keep track of all the messages and communicate with efficiency - because once we revamp your profile, there will be a lot more of the right messaging going on! 

And, since the goal is to eventually meet someone wonderful in person, you'll learn how to move things from online to offline (so you can have a real life date for a change!

Bottom line: We'll optimize your presence on up to 4 sites, help you get more right swipes or matches, and create a connection with the people you're most interested in.

Power Openings

Tired of typing (or reading) "Hey!"  when you open your dating app?  Are you rolling your eyes at lame, basic, unmotivating answers you get from the person you're trying to talk to online? 


Set yourself apart from the boring, unimaginative conversations that populate online dating.  Learn how to begin and sustain fun, interesting conversations - both online and in person - that will keep the person on the other end engaged.  Using our power openings concepts, you'll create a connection with the person you're messaging or talking to and lay a foundation for dating.

*Learn how to start conversations

*Learn language that inspires the object of your affection to WANT to date you

*Learn how to keep the conversation playful and how to stay away from tedious small talk

*Learn how to ask for a date

*Learn how to send cues you are interested and how to notice when someone is interested in YOU!

No Junk, No Joke

Ladies:  You know the shock, the insult, the outrage, and the objectification you feel when a guy you're talking to sends you an unsolicited private pic?  How much time and aggravation would you save if you had a way to guard against this?  Learn the art of creating boundaries that set you up for real, respectful conversations and rid your inbox of unwanted/immature subjects and pictures.  Learn how to be warm, open, and kind online, yet make it clear to men what your limits are.  In the end, No Junk, No Joke will help you weed out the junk pics offenders and clear space in your inbox for high-integrity guys.

Upcoming Events
Mastering the Art of Courtship: Online Edition
Zoom Coaching/Social event

Looking to make a real, lasting change?  Need deeper, more meaningful, ongoing support?  Here's a look at our proprietary, transformational

All-Inclusive Date Coaching Programs:

All -Inclusive Date Coaching

Local, National, In-person, and Virtual

Our All-Inclusive Date Coaching Programs are a client favorite.  We offer 3 and 6 month programs, tailored specifically for you!   When we work together ongoing, you get better,  longer-lasting results.  You'll develop the mindset management tools, the social strategies, the communication tools, and the online habits you need to  handle anything the dating market may throw at you--while, maintaining your dignity, sanity, and your appeal!  At the end of our program, you'll be relationship-ready and have the confidence and the game plan to get it.


The Date Maven's All-Inclusive Date Coaching includes all of the JumpStart Programs and more!  Also included:  Optional closet/Image makeover, wingman/wingwoman services, mock dates, just in time text coaching, Online Dating Assistant (ODA), and more...

What makes us different from other date coaches?

For starters, we are a two-person coaching team: one gal, one guy.  Our Mars/Venus approach to coaching is an asset for both our male and female clients.  Having both been in the singles scene recently, both of your coaches are able to give real-world strategies to back up the 'best practices' of modern dating.


At The Date Maven, we offer 'just time time texting' for our all-inclusive coaching clients.  This unique feature means we are just a few finger taps away from answering your questions, including helping you navigate dicey situations as they happen in real time.  We are there to help you get out of jams and solve problems as they are unfolding.


We also have our proprietary Power Openings Program, which has a proven track record of helping our clients not just create better, more meaningful connections, but also helping them land more dates, with more suitable matches.  Our clients will tell you we mean it when we say if you follow our program, it is YOU who will become pursued! 


Local, National, and International

Wichita, Kansas' Only Locally Owned and Operated Matchmaking Service!

The Date Maven's matchmaking services enables you to relax and let us do the heavy lifting for you. 
Our experienced team will seek out and vet qualified matches to ensure only the best match options are introduced to you!

Wichita's ONLY professional matchmaking service with local ownership has been serving the Wichita community for nearly 10 years. Contact us today so you can begin your journey to finding your forever after!

What is Matchmaking?

Matchmaking is the process of bringing two people together, for the purpose of friendship, romance, and eventually committed, long-term relationship.


If you’re like most mid-westerners, you’re practical and pragmatic. And while you have may have no problem meeting new people, you don’t want to waste time going on pointless dates and you’re not excited about online dating. You may not feel comfortable asking your friends to fix you up (or trust them to do so!) and you’re wishing there were a better way to find love and connection. You’re ready to hire a professional matchmaker whose education, experience, expertise, and rich network will help you finally achieve a healthy, happy relationship.


Choosing a matchmaker is a very personal decision. Think of it as the first important  ‘match’ in your journey to finding the one, so it’s essential to make an informed decision. For nearly a decade, The Date Maven has offered executive-search style matchmaking for growth-minded singles. Our matchmaking search strategies and caring client support processes are designed to curate matches based on your unique values-based, personality-based, and lifestyle-based criteria.

What Makes us Unique Among Other Matchmakers?

We strive to learn as much as we can about your dating and relationship history so we can help you capitalize on your strengths and avoid past pitfalls. During our initial consultation, we learn about your work/life balance, your family background, and your general outlook on life. We identify your specific Attachment Style and primary or preferred Love Languages – we may even conduct a personality inventory (much like those you’ve done in your professional life). This personalized, in-depth approach helps us identify the factors that have the biggest impact on your relationships.

For clients in our geographic area, we show up to make the introduction. You’ll never be given a phone number and expected to make your own date. You’ll never be standing alone in a bar or coffee shop, desperately scouring the room, hoping you’ll recognize the person you’re supposed to meet and hoping you’ll have something to say! We literally set up the date and facilitate the introduction in person – something most matchmakers can’t or won’t do!

Ongoing Learning and Adaptation...

The learning continues after each date... We gather detailed feedback after your first few matches to
learn more about your preferences and impressions. That helps us to calibrate and fine-tune our search for someone wonderful.

We also don’t create an artificial limit or barrier on the number of matches you can receive. Most matchmakers will cap you at one introduction per month; if your wish is to be an active, busy dater, then our goal is to bring
as many qualified individuals your way as possible, so that you can feel abundance and opportunity throughout the process.

Our proprietary, time-tested processes -- together with our understanding of interpersonal dynamics and human motivation -- plus our killer intuition and stellar reputation means that we attract good people as clients, as Date Maven community members, and as friends.

No clue what to do or where to start?  Tell us a little bit about you.  We'll be in touch to help you solve your dating problems.

Contact us today to schedule a session.